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Divorce and Snow Days

2/19/2021

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As children growing up, we loved snow days and the gift of a day off from school. Still, all the snow we have been having over the past few weeks has made me think of how challenging these schedule changes can be for divorcing parents. Divorcing parents have to create provisions in their parenting agreements to deal with unexpected occurrences – such as snow days.

In divorce mediation at Westfield Mediation, LLC, we help divorcing parents craft agreements for their children’s regular and holiday schedules. We also include contingency plans for unpredictable events like snow days, sick days or emergencies.

In addition, to make everything run more smoothly, we address issues like the preferred means of communication between parent -- be it text, email or phone. Also, we add in provisions so that the children can reach out on their own to the parent who is not on duty in a reasonable way.  We usually suggest shared calendars for the kids’ activities to ensure that everyone knows who has to be where and when. We find these tools go a long way towards easing conflicts. In general, by encouraging divorcing parents to work together on a parenting plan we hope to facilitate their ability to co-parent effectively once they are no longer married.  We find that including all of these topics in the parenting blue print in the beginning of the process minimizes opportunities for arguments and confusion later on.

​For more information on divorce mediation and parenting plans, please contact Randi M. Albert, JD, or Michelle Weinberg, M. Ed. Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, at Westfield Mediation, LLC, at 908.913.0373.  View our website at www.westfieldnjmediation.com or email us at info@westfieldnjmediation.com

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DIVORCE MEDIATION AND THE FAMILY PART CASE INFORMATION STATEMENT

2/5/2021

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Divorce in New Jersey is a legal process that at some point has to be done through the court system to be official.  You filed paperwork with the state to officially get married and have to file paperwork with the court to officially get divorced.  Most people who use divorce mediation services choose to start the court process when they are done with the divorce mediation process.  Even though an uncontested divorce usually only requires you to show up in court once, the day you are granted your divorce, there is a back-and-forth paper trail between the spouses and the court system that occurs before this date.  And there are time limits for each step in this process. 

You complete some of the required paperwork that you will need for court during mediation.  It is pages 6-10 of the Family Part Case Information Statement.  Pages 6-7 covers your marital lifestyle and post-divorce lifestyle budgets.  Pages 8-9 involves the allocation of all of your marital assets and debts.  Page 10 is a checklist of required documents, which you will have handy from the divorce mediation process.  These pages include a big chunk of what needs to be addressed for your divorce to be officially approved by the courts. You and/or your attorney can complete the remaining pages of this document.  But this document is required for the divorce process in court. 

At Westfield Mediation, LLC, the divorce mediators do not go to court with you.  We do provide a list of mediation-friendly divorce attorneys in the area, who can support you through the court-related step of the process.  The divorce mediators can help you reach an agreement about all the issues of your divorce in a more amicable, faster, lower cost manner and have some of the required paperwork completed. 
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For more information on divorce and divorce mediation, please contact Randi M. Albert, JD, or Michelle Weinberg, M.Ed., Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, at Westfield Mediation, LLC at 908.913.0373.  View our website at www.westfieldnjmediation.com or email us at info@westfieldnjmediation.com. 


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    Authors

    Michelle Weinberg, M.Ed.,LMFT, is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with many years of experience working with couples.

    Randi M. Albert, JD, is an attorney with experience in family law and public service.

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